No one likes making mistakes, especially me.
In fact, for years I did everything I could to avoid making a mistake. I stayed up late, meticulously reading web copy so I wouldn’t have a mistake on my new website.
I’d skip workouts and eat whatever food was easiest and fastest so I could work longer and harder, believing this would ensure I wouldn’t make a mistake.
I’d sacrifice time with family and friends telling myself it was all in the service of my business but what I was really doing was spending my time attempting to not make any mistakes.
I’d love to tell you that all of those late nights, hours and sacrifices worked and that I never made another mistake, but the truth is they didn’t.
I still made mistakes. Tons of them. Big ones.
And in return I not only had my mistakes to contend with, but I also jeopardized my health, and strained my relationships.
What I had to learn was that a) I was going to make mistakes, no matter how hard I tried not to, and more importantly, b) mistakes were the best way to learn.
Oh I know, I didn’t want to hear that either, but in the end, I’ve learned WAY more from my mistakes than I ever have from my successes.
The key is to actually learn from your mistakes. Most of us spend our time beating ourselves up when we make mistakes, missing the learning, and in doing so, compound the mistake.
I mean, if the mistake happened anyway, why not salvage something from the experience? Right?
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